The creation of a
child brings many expectations from parents, family, and society -
expectations both of that child and of our own responses and emotions. This work explores my own experiences with my children and the
limits placed on my children by my own expectations and society's need for them
to conform to a pre-defined profile. This work addresses society's obsession
with normality and its rejection of imperfection and challenges the right to
define 'normal'. Further, it poses the moral dilemma of the expectation of
perfection and challenges the perceived right to reject a child potentially
outside society's arbitrary limits.